
Forver Friends
I learned how to put out a grass fire, how to put up tight, barbed-wire fences, avoid stepping on cotton mouths and copperheads, hay cattle, and knock a Coke can off a fence post with a .22 short. I learned a lot more–the value of Mr. Henry’s unlimited and gentle hospitality and that the fields of our youth tend to grow smaller in time.
Mr. Henry stopped at Jonathan’s house every Saturday morning in his old black car and picked everyone up. He always had a box of sticky buns from a local bakery. He was there rain or shine. I went more often than not. On those days when I slept late, had chores, or was out of town, the weekend just never felt quite right. Jonathan’s father was a doctor and had, in fact, saved Mr. Henry’s life. Our Saturday morning trips to the farm were the only way he knew to give something back. He was, I thought, a special person just for thinking of the idea–and that he never missed a Saturday during those years was a lesson for me in dedication and follow-through.
I hadn’t thought of these Saturday morning trips for a while until an online group of writers I hang out with decided to print Forever Friends, an anthology of our work, our poems and short stories. I’m not much of a poet, but one of my rare attempts called “Debt, Paid in Full” was included. The poem didn’t come out too badly. I only wish Mr. Henry was still around to read it. Looking back, I hope I remembered to thank him and say goodbye when I went off to college and join the Navy.


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October 12, 2008 at 4:57 pm
montucky
Those are good memories, Malcolm and you are indeed fortunate to have them. I’ve noticed that these days there doesn’t seem to be any demand for old men and they as well as the youngsters lose something as a result.
October 12, 2008 at 6:50 pm
shelagh
What a great post Malcolm! Your poem is a wonderful tribute to Mr. Henry and I, too, am sorry that he’s not around to read your splendid poem.
October 12, 2008 at 7:51 pm
Malcolm
It’s fun looking back at those days, Montucky. Maybe there are more old men around than we think and more kids eager for their company and wisdom. If not, it’s too bad. My perception is that Mr. Henry was in his 70s when we went to his farm and he had plenty of offer.
Hi Shelagh, thanks for your kind words about the poem and the post. If Mr. Henry and his farm exist on another level of existence, perhaps they can hear us. The most gentle cow in the herd was named Friendly. Unlike the others, she didn’t step on our feet or try to move us around by ramming or leaning into us.
Malcolm
October 18, 2008 at 6:17 pm
halfnotes
Great story. If youngsters aren’t presented with opportunities like you had to get to know the old ones on a level deeper than “Hi, how are things,” then, as someone commented above, both generations lose something priceless. I grew up on a farm, and our family was careful to teach us the value of our great- and grandparents. Even now, as an adult, with all my grandparents gone, my best friend happens to be forty years older than me, and I find nothing weird about this.
October 18, 2008 at 6:28 pm
Malcolm
Thanks for the great comment, halfnotes. I’m very partial to farms. My wife grew up on a farm and her parents still live and work there. My parents and grandparents grew up on farms as well. Nothing better–unless one is afraid of hard work!
Malcolm
October 19, 2008 at 10:08 pm
tobeme
Thanks for sharing your wonderful memories. I love the cover of “Forever Freinds”.
October 20, 2008 at 10:52 pm
knightofswords
The cover came out pretty well, I think. Kind of fun revisting the farm, ifonly in memory.
Malcolm